So you’re not in love with the thought of Valentine’s Day? That’s ok! A lot of people use this cupid occasion to pump up the super sweet and sappy messages, eat those terrible candy hearts, or drown in their single status sorrow. But I’m here to tell you that not only is it ok to celebrate this V-day, but it’s more important to celebrate all year long. Here’s how:

Crush on yourself: Have you ever sent yourself a Valentine? Probably not. Most people think that it’s silly, or a waste of $0.44. Honestly, I think whether you have a significant other or not, you should take this time of year to remember the person who loves you the most: you. So why not DIY your own valentine? Or take yourself out for dinner? Or buy yourself a pretty little bra and panty set? (I’m especially keen on that last one, just so you know.) Don’t wait for someone else to read your mind. Pop into the shop and buy yourself those dozen roses and display them proudly at the office or at home, with a special note that reads: “I love you. Love, Me”.

Dress your best: I may not be a fan of wearing snowmen earrings at Christmas or heart socks around Valentine’s day, but I can’t resist wearing a sassy bra and panty set. If you’re not feeling the love this Valentine’s Day, nothing will make you look and feel like a goddess more than wearing a sexy and comfortable bra. I’m telling you, you will walk taller, look thinner, feel more attractive, take over the world! Ok, that last one is just based on my own personal experience but the other three are pretty spot on for all women who wear a great bra in the right size. Don’t keep that sexy bra stashed in the back of your bra drawer just in case Mr. Right comes along. Pull it out and wear it on a day when your spirits need lifting, or any darn day you feel like it!

Red and Pink and White, oh my! I don’t have anything against the colors red, pink or white in general. I think they are lovely! But who says that you have to wear these colors on Valentine’s Day? Not I. Personally, I love black lingerie. But if you like another color (blue? bright green? leopard?) go ahead and wear it. I’m a true believer that wearing what makes you feel good will help you look good. Besides, when it comes to lingerie, it can be your little secret! No one has to know that you have on bright purple undies… unless you decide to show them. Ow!

Start fresh: Sometimes we hold on to things for too long: a grudge, a boyfriend, a bra… you get the idea. So why not use February 14th to start fresh and let go of old things. Revamp that bra drawer and get rid of those old bras that don’t fit, don’t feel good, and are slowing you down. It will feel so thrilling to start fresh again with an organized drawer full of well-fitting bras. Uh-oh. Low on the well-fitting bras? Then treat yourself to a personal bra fitting! Pop into my shop or shop online for fantastic bras that will help you feel and look fantastic, too! Think there isn’t anything sexy in your size? Think again! I carry beautiful and well-fitting bras in every size imaginable. 

Dance around in your underwear: I’m dead serious. Put on your sexiest set or your favorite boyshorts and tank and pump up the volume! May I suggest something fun that makes you feel fabulous: “Young Hearts Run Free” by Candi Staton. You don’t need a partner to dance. Listen to this fun beat and the “self preservation” lyrics and have some fun!

Now, here’s a little secret: I think you should do these things throughout the whole year! That’s right. There’s no reason you can’t love yourself, dress your best, and have a good time – all the time. I think Valentine’s Day should just be a nice reminder if you’ve forgotten to do some of those things recently. So go on, live a little, and don’t let yet another Valentine’s Day drag you down to the dumps. Enjoy your Valentine’s Day the Linda the Bra Lady way!

XOXO

Ho ho ho! It’s that time of year again: The season when you get to pick thoughtful gifts to give. But, it’s also when you desperately hope that your friends, family, and special someone will finally get a clue and get you what you really want. Let’s be honest with each other, getting what you want for the holidays isn’t as easy as ::spoiler alert!:: asking Santa anymore. Sorry.

So how do you ask your friend, co-worker, or lover? It’s hard! The good news is that they want to give you something that you actually want. It can be stressful to give a good gift! And, if you’re hankering for a fabulous bra or a sexy set, it can be awkward to ask for. So here is my advice on how to ask for what you want without being greedy. Keep reading and I’ll clue you in!

In-store profile: Many women come into my store thinking “I’ll just buy one or two bras today”. Then they quickly realize that they are in the wrong size and are desperate for a bra drawer overhaul! In these cases, women have to buy their basics first and stockpile some good staples. However, this means that they have to leave a few behind. Luckily, my Bra Divas can write down these styles in their “profile” for next time. And if you want to send someone else to pick up that extra bra, you can tell your Mom, or Husband, or whoever to go to my store to pick up your favorite – all they need is your name! They can even get a recommendation based on past purchases from my Divas – so easy.

Educate your shopper: Have a guy who wants to buy you something sassy for the holidays? Congrats! Afraid that he is clueless on where to start? You’re not alone. Because guys don’t spend everyday in the stuff, how can we expect them to be totally in the know when it comes to bras and panties? That’s why I’ve created a guy-friendly guide so he can read up and shop with confidence.

Email your male: Can’t make it to the store? Have a guy who is more of an online shopper? You’ve got it made. Just browse through Lindasonline.com and copy and paste the links to your favorite styles into an email. Include your favorite sexy stuff and some good basics that you know you’ll need. Your friendly suggestions will be so easy to browse through. Even better, give a helpful hint by signing up for my Linda’s Emails and forwarding them along. Be sure to include notes at the top like “OMG, that Karla Colletto bathing suit is to die for! I saw Linda has it in red, too.  Size 10 please. Love you!”. Believe me, some guys will appreciate the direction. They want to get you something you’ll love!

Visual cue: Does he need more of a visual aid? No prob. Print out your favorite styles or my latest email blast and tape it to the bathroom mirror for him to find in the morning. You can also leave a nice little note of encouragement: “I hope you have a great day today. You can think of me wearing this I’d love to wear it for you…size 32F, in red, at Lindasonline.com”. Too forward? C’mon! If you don’t ask, you won’t get it!

Say it, get it: I can’t tell you how many women actually tell me that they were not the one who made their fitting appointment. On many occasions, their parent, boyfriend, or partner sent them in! When I ask why, they say that their partner was “so tired of hearing me complain about my bras not fitting.” Want a great gift? Ask for a fitting at Linda’s! To make sure you get your point across, mention it. A lot. “Phew, this bra is just painful. Gosh, I would love to go to Linda’s. I hear she is the best! I wish I had the time to make an appointment…maybe after the holidays. Then again, I may be low on funds by then. Man! I wish I could get a gift certificate for Christmas!” You get the picture. I don’t call it whining, I call it being smart.

Go get it, girl! Don’t have someone to ask to buy your favorite bra or panty? Do what I do: shop for yourself! After all of the fabulous gifts that you gave and how hard you’ve worked, you deserve to get what you really want. So take that holiday scarf back to the store and swing by my shop or shop online for a true gift to yourself: fabulousness. Look and feel your best in a bra that truly fits!

Happy holidays!